I’ve read some incredible articles lately on parenting and want to share two of them with you. I don’t think you need to be a parent to find these very very worth your time.
This first one, from the Atlantic monthly, was given to me by the leader of the moms’ group I’m in, which is so wonderful. You’ll be hearing more about it for sure. Basically this article talks about how as parents these days we can try so hard to tune into our kids and in doing so give them everything they want and need—and indeed believe that this is helping them to find what truly matters to them and makes them happy—-but in fact can leave them feeling empty and lost and that something is wrong if they aren’t happy all the time. It’s a nice counterpart to some other wonderful material that’s out there.
This next one might make you cry. For a couple of days. I know the writer from her days in LA; she lives and teaches in Santa Fe now. Her little boy was diagnosed with Tay-Sachs disease after his birth–her prenatal tests were negative. It’s a heartbreaking yet inspiring look at the power and preciousness of just loving your baby. I’d go get the tissues now if I were you.
It’s beautiful and fascinating to have a whole new realm of reading be top of my interest list. I’d love to know your favorites in this area! Because Luciana and I aren’t doing crafts yet, I confess my Marthas from this month and last are sitting there unread. I do plan to get to them this weekend. I’d like to.